maybe this words now days no more taboo. lot of couple get divorced after marriage, not only from normal couple. but even public figure didn't feel ashamed when they declare 'we are just get divorced'.
for me marriage is a sacred things, when u tied a knot and loving each other it means you ready for facing good or bad thing will be happen in your marriage life. spend your time with your husband or wife in each second. the day when you wake up in the morning you can see him sleep with his smile. or maybe you can see his expression when u make surprise candle light dinner at home in your anniversary. and when you give him a cute baby. and i know everyone dreamed this fairy tale.
it's not a fairy tale, you can prove this in your life. love your couple in each second, make him always fall in love. and every time you facing up problems, always remember how when both of you fall in love, arrange special moments, and make every moments so sweet. don't ever find a new chic just for a moment to get new happiness.
but i'm not said divorced was totally wrong, cause for some case its really need to be did this. let say violence, not give any material or sex in entire marriage life or cheat n sleep with cheater even until have baby. would u still stand for he/she who did that ?
one of my friend get marriage last year, his husband didn't have any job to fulfill their need so they decide to stay with the girl's parents. all expenses are from the parents, coz even my friend didn't have any job and they are not from a rich family. after that my friend got pregnant, in 5th month pregnancy her husband got job but in another island. coz they need money also for give birth they decide to have long distance relationship. 9th month came, she born a baby boy but her husband not even come to see the baby. he only send her some amount of money for hospital. day by day she just know that her husband got another woman there.
i'm so pity of her, what a shameless man.. he never give any material, care or love, stay and use girl's parents money and now have another woman ??
so they decide to get divorced, coz even from man family they never give a such care. either only for asking the baby. FYI that baby boy is a first grandson from first son, which is in my family he will be showered with love and care.
i learn from this problems.. never marriage with someone u didn't really know who is he, what is his background and how is his family. don't pick up cat from a bag.. u should know them..
at the end i just want say ..
life ur live with love and care
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