Best friend ?

To whom ever hurt me even i did my best, thank you for all the time we wasted together.

We have good time before till i know who you are

I'm kinda morons. I know what u did, i know how bad u are. But still i stand for u.

But u gimme things to learn :
don’t ever trust someone too much . . Too much trust, too much effort, will be too much hurt.

Do i hate u ?
Absolutely ya . .
But still I am just a human who make mistake.

Hope you will be happy in ur entire life.
Just one thing i can wish 4u :
Please change ur attitude, ur nice person if u never stabbed ur friend from back.

And someday if u remember me, i still open my hand to hug u.

D.I.V.O.R.C.E.D - one word with thousand causes

maybe this words now days no more taboo. lot of couple get divorced after marriage, not only from normal couple. but even public figure didn't feel ashamed when they declare 'we are just get divorced'.

for me marriage is a sacred things, when u tied a knot and loving each other it means you ready for facing good or bad thing will be happen in your marriage life. spend your time with your husband or wife in each second. the day when you wake up in the morning you can see him sleep with his smile. or maybe you can see his expression when u make surprise candle light dinner at home in your anniversary. and when you give him a cute baby. and i know everyone dreamed this fairy tale.

it's not a fairy tale, you can prove this in your life. love your couple in each second, make him always fall in love. and every time you facing up problems, always remember how when both of you fall in love,  arrange special moments, and make every moments so sweet. don't ever find a new chic just for a moment to get new happiness. 

but i'm not said divorced was totally wrong, cause for some case its really need to be did this. let say violence, not give any material or sex in entire marriage life or cheat n sleep with cheater even until have baby. would u still stand for he/she who did that ? 

one of my friend get marriage last year, his husband didn't have any job to fulfill their need so they decide to stay with the girl's parents. all expenses are from the parents, coz even my friend didn't have any job and they are not from a rich family. after that my friend got pregnant, in 5th month pregnancy her husband got job but in another island. coz they need money also for give birth they decide to have long distance relationship. 9th month came, she born a baby boy but her husband not even come to see the baby. he only send her some amount of money for hospital. day by day she just know that her husband got another woman there.

 

i'm so pity of her, what a shameless man.. he never give any material, care or love, stay and use girl's parents money and now have another woman ??

so they decide to get divorced, coz even from man family they never give a such care. either only for asking the baby. FYI that baby boy is a first grandson from first son, which is in my family he will be showered with love and care.

i learn from this problems.. never marriage with someone u didn't really know who is he, what is his background and how is his family. don't pick up cat from a bag.. u should know them..

at the end i just want say .. 

life ur live with love and care

National Anthem in movie theatre?? Why not . . .

How u feel when u go to theatre to watch movie, but before movie start we have to stand up and there will be played our own national anthem.

For me i feel goosebump, proud and even tears wanna come down.

 

But unfortunately I didn't experience it in my own country. I believe first impression when u heading this things u will said 'what the hell is this, we are coming for watch movie not for doing ceremony.

if you think like that .. Definetaly I will say "Shame on you guys".

 

You should proud of ur national anthem. If I'm a goverment staff or maybe if I'm Jakarta governor. For sure I will assign it in every movie theatre in Indonesia. Not for nothing or waste ur time. But to make our youngster more love of their country and know their national anthem.

 

I believe only 7 out of 10 who really remember lyrics of Indonesia Raya our National anthem. But out of it 25 out of 25 who really knows pop songs, rock or k-pop songs. Don't u feel ashamed ??

 

 

 

 

 

busway .. baswe.. baswai ... Bus Trans Jakarta

 bener yah kalo negara ASEAN lainnya bilang negara kita tuh jauh tertinggal dalam transportasi umum. emang sih yang namanya bus trans jakarta itu ngebantu. lumayan lah daripada angkot biasa. cuma kalo nunggunya pake sejam lebih apa iya masih dibilang kualified sebagai sarana transportasi yang baik ??

rumah gw di daerah cengkareng, tiap hari kerja harus berangkat jam 5.30 pagi . . masalah penuhnya sih masi bisa tahan lah. cuma kalo dah penuh dan nunggu bediri di shelter selama satu jam lebih apa ga bikin sedeng !!

menurut gw perencanaan adanya si bus ini masih kurang matang banget. mulai dari jumlah armada yang teramat sangat minim jadi ga bisa nampung jumlah penumpang yang sekian tumplek plek di jam pergi dan pulang kantor.

apalagi SATGAS yang ada di dalamnya. ga tegas banget, seenggaknya harus bisa bagi dong ambil berapa penumpang di setiap shelternya. jadi ga akan ada pembludakan penumpang di shelter terjauh. trus kadang2 masih bisa diisi di depan dan belakang tapi si satgas cuek aja.

dan SDM-nya sendiri yang kurang kesadaran. masih ada lah yang suka buang sampah di bus.. bahkan meludah .. oemjiiii.. dia pikir itu wc umum apaah...
dorong2an.. tereak2an .. dan yang paling parah polusi udara nya dooong (baca: bau badan atau bau ketek).

bukannya ga cinta negara sendiri. tapi coba bandingkan dengan transportasi di negara tetangga deh. ada MRT, LRT atau kalaupun bus semuanya nyaman.

kapan ya Indonesia bisa kayak gitu ???